Dealing With Workplace Harassment

Stopping Abuse in its Tracks

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Protection From Harassment is a Civil Right - Stephen Stacey
Protection From Harassment is a Civil Right - Stephen Stacey
Workplace rights are often spelled out during a company's orientation day. Harassment of any kind should never be tolerated.

The term harassment covers many areas. Harassment is behavior that is intended to disturb or upset another. Legally, it is when the behavior is disturbing or upsetting.

Workplace harassment should never be tolerated. Be it sexual, racial, or just plain bullying, a hostile work environment is a fire that needs to be put out before it gets out of control.

Aside from making a good job a living hell, it is illegal. Everyone, according to the Civil Rights Act of 1964, has a right to work in a safe place where they are free from persecution of any kind. For those who find that they are in a battle for these rights, resolving problems of this nature can often be handled without much effort.

Confront the Offensive Person

Most often, people who know they are doing the wrong thing, such as making suggestive comments or telling inappropriate jokes, will stop when confronted.

Confrontation can be uncomfortable, but it is nowhere near as uncomfortable as being in a hostile work environment. Furthermore, most people do not want their co-workers to be uncomfortable with them. They would rather be well received.

Confronting a person about a matter that has been found to be offensive, or made someone uncomfortable, is the best first step to solving this problem. Although Human Resource reps are available in most companies, they shouldn't be necessary for simply telling someone to stop behaving in a way that is inappropriate.

HR should, however, be involved if the offending individual continues, or elevates, the hostility or discomfort, despite being asked to stop.

Create a Log of Events

Following the initial step of informing a co-worker that he or she is creating an uncomfortable environment, the date and time should be noted of what had been said or done that led to the confrontation.

Recording details of this sort is only necessary if the behavior continues. Confronting inappropriate behavior more than once may be necessary so as to ensure a co-worker understands that his or her behavior is unwelcome and disruptive.

If it persists, then it is time to inform a supervisor. If a supervisor is informed by a subordinate that there is hostility in the workplace, he must take care of it. If supervisors do not report the matter to HR, then they have broken the law, as they are legally bound to report a case of harassment. They cannot simply "keep it in the office."

At this point, the log should contain instances of inappropriate behavior, instances when the offender(s) was confronted, and instances that a supervisor or HR rep was informed of the situation.

What if the Harasser is the Boss' Boss?

Harassment in the workplace is illegal, and that is all there is to it. The logs created above can become legal evidence for the plaintiff if matters must persist to such extremes.

Working in certain situations, such as a mom and pop business, could prove to have different difficulties than working at a large company with corporate policies in place. The military can prove to have its own challenges as well.

Despite the differences, no one should be made to feel uncomfortable at work due to harassment. It is illegal under federal law. If one works for a company with less than 15 employees, then state laws should be consulted.

Regardless of where one works, or who is committing the offenses, no one is above the law when it comes to harassing others. Workplace harassment is damaging as it threatens the well being of others, creating hostility as they struggle to continue for a means to care for themselves and/or their family.

This article was written with the guidance of Andrew Smith, a Human Resources Generalist in Rochester, NY

Christopher Pascale, Picture This Photography

Christopher Pascale - Christopher Pascale is an accountant from Long Island, NY

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Jul 27, 2009 5:06 AM
Guest :
I hope governments, organizations and society empower people to stand-up against harassment.
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Aug 17, 2009 10:26 PM
Guest :
You hit the nail on the head with this one!

Workplace harassment can be stopped so quickly before it becomes a big deal. I've seen situations get out of hand unnecessarily just because the people offended were too weak to put a stop to it when it wasn't a big deal.

This article is the perfect guide to stopping this kind of stuff, or having to deal with it long term. Thanks!
Dec 11, 2009 5:32 AM
Guest :
So what you are saying is that workplace harrassmaent doesnt have to be sexual, racist, etc?
Jan 26, 2010 6:52 PM
Guest :
Loved it!!!! I am being bullied at work and also being discpline for reporting an assult on me. Thanks for printing it.
Feb 6, 2010 3:40 PM
Guest :
I am a 58 year old woman who was verbally abused at work by a younger co-worker about 30. He yelled in my face throwing around the f-bomb, and when I told him he couldn't talk to me that way he answered well I just f****** did. I reported to my boss and the president of the company - nothing was done to the employee and they said his story didn't match mine. When I asked what his story was they told me it wasn't in my best interested to know. So here I am nearly 60 and I have to go and look for another job because I almost have a breakdown everytime I look at the employee.
Mar 8, 2010 4:25 AM
Guest :
Workplace harassment is too serious to ignore.
Apr 15, 2010 7:09 PM
Guest :
its gay
May 9, 2010 5:21 PM
Guest :
is get talked to using profanity on almost a daily basis considered harrassment?
May 9, 2010 11:48 PM
Christopher Pascale :
This depends on how the profanity is used. If someone is calling you names and you've made it clear that you do not enjoy this kind of conversation (some find it humorous) then yes.

However, if someone is simply foul-mouthed and not bullying in any kind of way, then no. But it does not mean you have to be subject to this. As noted in the article, people generally want to be liked and do not want to make others uncomfortable. If you do not let them know you feel this way, they will have no way of knowing.

This is a case where you can be your own advocate.
May 9, 2010 11:51 PM
Christopher Pascale :
Adding to this: profanity usually does not have a place in the office. It is unprofessional. If this is a superior and his or her tone is hostile when this language is used, then it can most certainly be a form of harassment, and the necessary steps should be taken.
Jun 29, 2010 8:52 PM
Guest :
No one should have to put up with being harassed, but we all have in some way or another. My friend's kid recently gave notice at Burger King because he's going away for a month to Europe. He saved up for it himself. And his manager changed his schedule the next week without telling him. When he came for the evening shift, he was told he'd been fired for not showing up that morning as was on the schedule.

He's going to be doing bigger and better things, but I'd say he was harassed by a boss who was jealous and wanted to instill fear in his other employees.
Aug 20, 2010 9:53 AM
Guest :
Workplace harassment can be pure hell. Having been guilty of letting someone be harassed I can say that having seen it firsthand, it can be awful, and some people need the job so badly there's nothing they can do about it.
Oct 8, 2010 4:06 AM
Guest :
right and true
Jun 10, 2011 9:44 AM
Guest :
I am in stressful situation right now here in my workplace. I complaint againts my supervisor, for harrass,discriminate my race.i send my to company ER middle east, but i am so composed why the ER put my complaint handle by Department manager.before i write and send my complaint to ER i follow the chan of command.
only my hope is God watching and i believe that God not let win the Bad than Good.
Jun 10, 2011 10:31 AM
Christopher Pascale :
If your dept. manager is the supervisor who is harassing you, then that is wrong and you have to do the opposite of sitting by and hoping God sorts it out. God helps those who help themselves.

If the Dept. Manager is above your supervisor, then this is a proper first step, but it does not mean you should not be on your guard. After all, management usually tries to protect supervisors when possible, possibly creating an outcome where you remain subservient, but secretly punishing the supervisor so that this kind of activity does not happen again.

Please keep us updated.
Mar 21, 2012 3:14 PM
Guest :
my daugher is an assistant manager in a food chain restaurant. her manager calls her stupid and because she is bi polar laughs and makes remarks about her disability in front of co workers and in front of customers as well. she has went to upper managment to seek help and they took her out of the store for awhile and put her in a revolving store location meaning every day she was in a different store sometimes across the city in a far location and finally they sent her to the same store again and now she puts up with the harrasment everyday she works there. I am tired of her being treated like this and now i am seeking advice.
Gary
Mar 22, 2012 12:14 AM
Christopher Pascale :
Hi Gary,

I'm really sorry that you and your family are going through this. Harassment hurts everyone.

What is it that is keeping your daughter at this restaurant? After all, there are plenty of other places with equivalent work, and she does not have to put up with this crap.

You did not mention how old she is. On handling this, I have to say that as a father of four daughters, I would hope that they could handle this themselves, but I would not be above going and speaking with this manager as one adult to another if your daughter is a minor.

I hope everything works out. There is no reason your daughter needs to be in an abusive situation. Life is hard enough without it.
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